7 Things You Must Do To Be Successful In Life. A Must Read Article.

Feb 22, 2020 8:55 AM

Success plays a key role in the journey of life. But there are many obstacles and challenges that comes which may bring a slowly growth to success. There are 7 things you must do to make it in life( be successful).

1. Visualize your success.

Dream of success, have vision for success. The more vision you have, the more successful you become.

2. Maintain a daily routine.

Yes, To succeed, you must plan. A fail to plan is a plan to fail. Set a plan and procedures for yourself, maintain it and follow it.

3. Obstacles are to be defeated.

Many obstacles will come, but you must overcome them. Be bold and strong to defeat obstacles. That's the key to success. If you're afraid of obstacles, then you won't be successful, but if you wage a war against any obstacles that comes your way, then Success is knocking at your door.

4. A healthy mind in a healthy body.

Have your own mind. Never listen to wrong advices from your friends and relatives, they will mislead you. Be determined, your determination will lead you to your justification and success.

5. Hope to endure when passing through difficult times.

Be optimistic, have the hope of greater future. Yes, difficult time will come, but have the hope to conquer them.

6. Patience is a virtue and one that should be used.

There is light at the end of the tunnel, but endurance is the way. Be patient, never be in haste, good things will surely come. Endure.

7. Use your time as the valuable resource that it is.

Time is very precious, and a stitch in time saves nine. Never waste your time. Make use of your time. And by doing all this you will be successful.

Success is sure. Amen.

Don’t push away a girl who shows these 20 signs she cares about you. (No 7 and 13 is a must)

Mar 21, 2020 2:15 pM

Signs she cares about you.

In everyone’s lives, there is the one who got away. If she’s showing you these 20 signs she cares about you, don’t let her go.

Have you recently met a girl and think she might be someone special? You’re probably a little confused to where her feelings stand. Don’t panic, it’s normal to experience these insecurities!

To help you out, here are 20 signs she cares about you. If you notice a majority coming your way, she certainly is wanting the same thing as you. 20 subtle signs she cares about you a lot If you want to meet someone on the same page as you and experience the deep connection only love can bring, your journey towards finding them can be full of pitfalls. The problem is, after a few false starts, recognizing a genuine person in your life can be tricky. Finding real, true love can be difficult. We meet people who don’t want a relationship, people who say they do but don’t really, those who simply want fun, and those who have no clue what they want deep down. Watch for these 20 signs she cares about you and see where you stand.

#1 She remembers small details about you.

If you don’t mean anything to her, she wouldn’t bother remembering your birthday, favorite color, favorite meal, or the other small details which make you the person you are. This means you’re clearly in her brain. It’s a surefire sign she cares about you.

#2 She’s genuinely interested in how your day went.

If she doesn’t care, she won’t have the slightest interest in whether your day went well or not. If she always asks how your day was, and always asks if you’re alright, etc., that’s a great sign.

#3 She worries about you.

Perhaps you have a headache, or maybe you didn’t sleep well the night before. Care means she will be worried about that to a degree. Okay, she’s not going to be full scale panicking, but she will be concerned, e.g. ‘make sure you get some sleep tonight, you look really tired.’

#4 She will give you advice.

Most girls are great at giving out advice. Is she advising you on the best way forward, especially in terms of the future? This is a girl with your best interests at heart. Sure, if you only notice this one sign then there is a possibility that it’s a friendship deal. But, add in a few more signs, there’s definitely romance in the air!

#5 She wants to know about the people in your life.

If she seems genuinely interested to learn about the important people you have in your life, such as your family and friends, that’s a great sign too. She could also be trying to find out more about them so that if she gets to meet them, she can impress them. Every girl wants to impress her partner’s parents and friends!

#6 She tries to help.

If you have a problem, giving advice is one thing but actively doing something to help is quite another. A person who cares will jump into help. If you notice that she actually does try and solve a problem of yours, or at least helps, that’s a sign she cares about you.

#7 She’s happy when you’re happy.

A girl doesn’t need to be an empathise to pick up on your bad moods or other emotional cues. If you’re in a bad mood or feeling down, she’ll reflect it. On the flip-side, when you’re happy, she’s happy, and a true sign of affection.

#8 She acts selflessly around you.

A girl who cares about you will put your happiness a little in front of her own, not completely, but she will want you to be the one smiling. This can be something big or small, like giving you the last piece of chocolate cake, or missing out on a party because she knows you need her help with something.

#9 She encourages you to achieve.

If she cares about you, she will want you to achieve and do great things in your life. She encourages you to go for opportunities and try new things. She will feel proud of you and be your biggest supporter.

#10 She lifts you up when you’re down.

Perhaps you’ve had a bad day at work. The big presentation didn’t go as well as you’d hoped. If she really cares about you, she will be the one giving you the pep talk, lifting you up, and pushing you to try again.

#11 She does her best to make time for you.

It’s impossible for her to drop everything for you all the time *and quite frankly, why should she?*. But a girl who cares about you will do her best to prioritize you in her schedule. This means fitting you in whenever she can. Maybe she has a pre-arranged dinner with friends in her diary, but she’ll meet you before or afterwards, just to see you.

#12 She lets you know you’re on her mind.

If she’s out with friends, working late, or away, you’ll probably receive texts from her. Simply to let you know that you’re on her mind. These texts won’t be anything important, just a reason to reach out. This is certainly one of the best signs she cares about you.

#13 She laughs at your jokes, even when they’re not funny.

If a girl cares, she will laugh at your jokes, even if they’re terrible. She will also sit through your long stories, just because she likes to hear you talk. She likes to see you become so animated when talking about something from your past.

#14 She will still make fun of you.

There’s an old story that you ‘pull the pigtails of the one you love.’ That basically means that boys are mean to girls on the playground because they actually like them. This can work for girls too! If a girl is always making fun of you in a playful and affectionate way, she cares!

#15 She doesn’t play games.

A girl who cares about you won’t be interested in playing games. She doesn’t want you to misunderstand or get hurt accidentally. She will reply to your texts in a timely manner and be honest with you.

#16 She does her best to remember the things you like and don’t like.

I mentioned earlier about her remembering small details. But if she specifically remembers the things you like and don’t like, that’s a great sign. For instance, she’ll cook a meal but she will leave out the mushrooms because you hate them.

#17 She will look at you, simply because she can.

If you notice your girl just looking at you with a coy smile on her face, she cares about you. Sure, it’s also a sign of attraction, but there is a difference between looking at you with passion and looking at you simply because she wants to.

#18 She apologizes when she is wrong.

A girl who doesn’t care about you won’t bother to apologize if she does something wrong or unintentionally hurts you. One of the biggest signs she cares about you is that she will say ‘sorry’ when she knows she is in the wrong.

#19 She will get angry with you occasionally.

Probably over the smallest things, your girl will certainly get angry with you if she cares. Anger is an emotion. When someone we don’t care about does something, we shrug it off. If someone we care about does something, we get upset and angry. It’s a contradiction, but it’s certainly a sign!

#20 She will always defend you.

Your girl will always be your biggest supporter. If she hears someone talking about you, she will defend you to within an inch of her life. This is a surefire sign she cares. Nodding along to many of these suggestions? These are true signs she cares about you. In that case, keep hold of her and give her the same signs back. She’s a keeper!

Women Arrest 7 Boko Haram Fighters With Spiritual Powers

Mar 19, 2020 5:52PM

This may sound like a sentence from a Yoruba movie with Fadeyi Oloro as central character but it is not…

In what seems like a metaphysical battle, some women in Gwoza town of Borno state have arrested seven armed Boko Haram terrorists who were returning from a raid.

According to sources in the town, some Boko Haram fighters had earlier that days attacked a vehicle loaded with bread, on its way from Gwoza to Polka, at Warabe village.

The terrorists slaughtered the occupants, commandeered the vehicle and drove towards the infamous Sambisa forest.

That was where their luck ran out.

A witness from the town narrates a story that is hard to believe but its true if reports from the area are to be believed.

“After seizing the vehicle conveying the bread and other valuables in Gwoza and neighboring villages, some of the insurgents moved towards the Sambisa (Forest) and met some women on the way.

“The insurgents wanted to attack the women but their guns did not work.

“They tried hitting them with the boot of their guns but mysteriously, all the hands of the insurgents hung until youth and vigilantes in the area mobilized and killed them,” he said.

Sources say the youth and community vigilante lynched the terrorists immediately.

The head of local vigilantes in Borno state said that the arrest was made after the terrorist confronted a group of determined women.

“When the gunmen were moving out of Gwoza, most people fled to safety but those women refused to flee,” Gava said.

See What Killed Each Apostle Of Jesus(You will be surprised at the mystery)

1. Matthew

Suffered martyrdom in Ethiopia, Killed by a sword wound.

2. Mark

Died in Alexandria, Egypt , after being dragged by Horses through the streets until he was dead.

3. Luke

Was hanged in Greece as a result of his tremendous Preaching to the lost.

4. John

Faced martyrdom when he was boiled in huge Basin of boiling oil during a wave of persecution In Rome. However, he was miraculously delivered From death.

John was then sentenced to the mines on the prison Island of Patmos. He wrote his prophetic Book of Revelation on Patmos . The apostle John was later freed and returned to serve As Bishop of Edessa in modern Turkey . He died as an old man, the only apostle to die peacefully

5. Peter

He was crucified upside down on an x-shaped cross.

According to church tradition it was because he told his tormentors that he felt unworthy to die In the same way that Jesus Christ had died.

6. James

The leader of the church in Jerusalem , was thrown over a hundred feet down from the southeast pinnacle of the Temple when he refused to deny his faith in Christ. When they discovered that he survived the fall, his

enemies beat James to death with a fuller's club.

This was the same pinnacle where Satan had taken Jesus during the Temptation.

7. James the Son of Zebedee,

was a fisherman by trade when Jesus Called him to a lifetime of ministry. As a strong leader of the church, James was  beheaded at Jerusalem. The Roman officer who guarded James watched amazed as James defended his faith at his trial. Later, the officer Walked beside James to the place of execution. Overcome by conviction, he declared his new faith to the judge and Knelt beside James to accept beheading as a Christian.

16 Sure Ways To Improve Your Memory When Studying For An Exam

1. Walk Before An Exam

Taking a walk before an exam could make your brain more active and work even better.

2. Speak Out Loud Instead of Simply Reading

The possibility you remember what you read when you say it out loud could make you remember what you read as the words will stick to your brain easily.

3. Reward Yourself With A Treat

Rewarding yourself with a treat after achieving a specified goal when reading or when you solve a question right could motivate you into studying well.

4. Teach What You Have Learned

There is a saying that the more you teach the more you know. Teaching people is a very effective method to improve your memory as it makes what you have learnt to stick to it brain for a very long time.

5. Create Mental Associations

Reading with a group of friends can have a very positive impact on your memory as you will have the privilege to discuss your mind troubling issues on any topic of your choice and get to understand it better.

6. Draw Diagrams

A diagrammatic representation of what you have read will make you remember better because it is much more easier to remember images on a particular detail than reading.

7. Times New Roman is the Fastest Font to Read

The kind of font you read in your textbooks can also improve your memory as a font that is not clear enough or too calligraphic may not be easy to digest

8. Use Apps to Block Distracting Sites

Do away with Social media during your study time as to prevent any form of unnecessary distractions

9. Watch a Documentary on the Topic

Watching a documentary or a tutorial video on the topic you are preparing for will make it easier to assimilate and understand because you are more likely to remember what you see.

10. Search Google Like a Pro

Making good use of search engines like Google will research more easier and will give you a wider reach of knowledge.

11. Create Flashcards for Quick Memory Buzz

Creating cards that contains definition of particular terms or formulas will make you to memorize topics you have studied almost anywhere.

12. Take Regular Study Breaks

Taking a break is necessary for your brain to rest and assimilate everything you have studied. Your brain shouldn't be overworked.

13. Listen to the Correct Type of Music

There musics that can help you with reading as they trigger your memory and make you assimilate even fater

14. Make Your Study Space Portable

Study in environment that is conducive for reading and comfortable as well.

15. Practice, Practice, Practice…

"Practice makes perfect", the more your practice and revise what you have learnt or read will make you become a pro on no time.

16. Don’t Stay Up All Night Before an Exam

Make sure to get adequate rest the nights leading up to your exams. When you sleep, your brain assimilates the information you have learned when studying so getting a good night’s sleep will help you remember those pesky maths formulas you need for your exam!

8 Ways to Solve Communication Problems in Your Relationship

Mar 16, 2020 9:50 PM

One of the most important yet unspoken things that everybody in a relationship expects from their partners is for the communication lines to be open. They want their partners to be honest and truthful, with nothing – not even a tiny unimportant detail left behind. But while we commit to do the same, we also tend to violate this cardinal rule unknowingly.

But how exactly should you deal with communication problems? Here are 8 baby steps that you can start with:

1. Agree on a set of house rules.

When starting out as a couple, you and your partner may want to sit down and discuss what you are expecting from each other, and how you want to channel your opinions in case you stumble upon difficult issues. This may sound too technical at first, as this is not commonly practiced, but it helps a lot.

By talking about and agreeing on a set of house rules for your relationship, you learn more about each other’s thoughts and opinions, both as partners and as individuals. And if you love each other, you will be able to exercise respect towards these rules, as you have jointly agreed to commit to them.

2. When talking about expectations, do so in the form of “aspirations.”

Telling your partner about your expectations from him or her can be very intimidating, and they may end up feeling that they’re obliged to do something for you. While it is normal for both parties to feel a sense of “obligation,” maybe you can convey your expectations in a rather sugarcoated manner.

You may open up the discussion about what you are expecting from each other in the form of sharing your aspirations. It is because your partner wants to feel involved as much as you do, and sharing these aspirations allows them to be more motivated in contributing to the relationship – including communicating properly.

3. Don’t take non-personal communication channels for granted.

Many of us think that since we talk on the phone or chat on Facebook with our partners so often, our communication lines are doing great. Nope, that’s not always the case. There are even instances when it is these very same channels that bring turmoil to the relationship.

Communicating via technological devices may be very convenient, but at the same time they are limiting in terms of the quality of your conversation. So yes, if you want to discuss serious matters that require a solid communication line, do it in person, face to face.

4. Apply maximum tolerance.

When you are in a relationship, it doesn’t mean that you two already own each other, and that you only have to focus on what you are sharing together. You should keep in mind that even if you are already married, you two are still living separate, individual lives. And this is where maximum tolerance comes to play.

Maximum tolerance is when you allow your partner to do the things he or she likes to do as an individual. This can be hard as it may entail going out with friends, focusing on work, and doing other activities that do not concern you. However, relationships are a test of patience and trust. So if you trust your partner (and vice versa), tolerance can be achieved.

5. Make it a point to spend some “gadget-free” time together.

Another way to beat communication issues in a relationship is by setting yourselves free from the control of technology for a while. This means going on a hike or strolling in the park without communication devices, or swimming at the beach with your phones tucked in the trunk of your car.

Gadgets these days, due to their multitude of features, tend to be major distractions in times when you are supposed to be enjoying each other’s company. Oftentimes you spend more time tinkering with these devices and the apps that come with them, rather than realizing that your relationship is already going towards a downward spiral because you two don’t talk anymore.

6. Play mind games.

By saying “mind games,” we don’t mean making each other paranoid. We’re doing this literally, by means of fun games such as charades or Cards Against Humanity, Monopoly, etc. These games strengthen your communication lines as a couple, as you deal with riddles together.

You may not realize it easily but through these games, you are able to see how your partner thinks towards a particular situation, and how they intend to solve the problem. They will likewise see these in you, and from there you are able to bring up more serious issues or problems in ways that align to how they think, feel, and react.

7. Don’t start the conversation with a nag.

We all want to be wooed. We all want our partners to make us feel loved, adored, and shower us with sweetness. And we want to feel this more when we are facing a problem as a couple.

When you and your partner are dealing with a certain situation, it is a major no-no for you to begin the argument with a nag. Sure, you are starting to feel frustrated by how things are going, but pressing for your solution is not the way to go. Your partner will easily break and feel useless, and would either shut up just to keep you satisfied, or come to realize that he or she already wants out of the relationship.

8. Always be sensitive of each other’s feelings.

Breakups often happen because the people involved in the relationship are no longer sensitive of each other’s feelings. They prioritize their own welfare, and tend to solve problems on their own instead of doing it as team. They also begin to keep secrets from each other, just to keep everything as nice and dainty as they seem.

However, this tragedy can be easily avoided if you two are sensitive of each other feelings. This means you make it a point to acknowledge each other’s emotions, opinions, and proposed solutions towards a problem, no matter how easy or difficult it is to solve. By being more sensitive, it would be easier to talk things through, come up with a decision, and resolve whatever issue you are dealing with as a couple.