Men are well known for telling a handful of unbelievable lies when they find you attractive and wish to take you to bed, both the married and single (if there is anything such as single man). Once you find out about it or maybe have your doubts, most of them are willing to go an extra mile by swearing with their lives just to convince or prove you otherwise.
Most men believe that ladies are moved by what they hear, regardless of what their heart tells them, this means that if a man is able to convince them with lies, they are liable to fall easily, especially when the man in question is handsome and well loaded. Women who fall for these cheap lies are the kind that are mostly moved by what they hear and see. In this post, we reveal some these lies so you will know once they are at it.
Below are the 10 common lies men tell just to take you to be:
1. I'm ready to settle down
Majority of ladies don't know this but let me take some time to make it clear. A man who is ready to marry you will never let you know until he has decided and is 100% sure that it is you, that is only when he will come forward with his plan by asking you to marry him. A lot of women this days keep wondering how a man they've known for years will leave them and get married to someone else.few weeks later. The only explanation to this is that he was just using you to warm his bed all these years while making plans to marry another. So beware when a man comes to you singing about him being ready to settle down.
2. I won't be chasing you for this long if I only wanted to sleep with you
Many ladies has in the past, fallen for this cheap lies so many times. Men usually use this line when they have been asking a woman out for maybe a year or two, and she keeps turning him down. Trust me, it works, especially when the lady in question start convincing herself he won't be coming after her all this years if he didnt actually love her. Believe it or not, if you ever fall for this lie, na express you dey go.
3. If she was my girlfriend I won't be here chasing you around
Guess when men tells you this lie? Immediately you ask hm who is she? Right there, he will first deny her, then try to convince you that she is just an ordinary friend whom he has known his he was a kid. Once he notices that you don't believe him, then the mighty lie comes next. If believe him at your own peril.
4. I don't know how to cook, can you come and cook for me?
Lets just agree that there are some ladies whose number one hobby is cooking, they love cooking more than anything else in the world. And once a man notices this, maybe through chatting or calls, they try to take advantage. Once they ask you what your favorite food is, whatever answer you give them automatically becomes their favorite food too. Then he tickles you by telling you he can't wait to taste your meal, once you laugh over it then the almighty question follows suit "Can you come and cook for me?" Sorry Mr. but have you been eating grasss all these while? Ladies beware because i dont need to remind you what will happen next.
5. I've told my mom about you
98% percent of ladies for this. Once a man tells them this cheap lie, they start creating an abstract of their wedding day because they believe once his mother is aware of their relationship, nothing else is stands on the way.
6. When his friends start calling you our wife
Unlike women, men know themselves quite too well, and always have their own backs. Once you start dating him and keeps turning down his bedroom advances, he turns straight to his friends for aid. Imagine on an outing and both of you run into his friends and immdiately they start hailing you OUR WIFE!! Trust me, nothing will move you more than this.
7. He starts attending the same church with you
This particular lie is specially meant for our sisters in the lord. Once he find out you're the too religious type and can't find their way around you, then he will try to use your holy holy life against you. He immediately starts attending the same church with you, even crusade he is there. Meanwhile this is someone that hasn't been to church since his child dedication day. The funny part is, any day he comes to your church, he will do everything possible to ensure you notice him. Even when the pastor ask people with Ogbanje spirit to come out for deliverance, he jumps out just to make you feel free and relaxed with him.
8. I'm thinking about going to see your people
This lie pops up when the lady is very stubborn and wouldnt give in to his selfish demands. He already knows that she loves him but isnt willing to open it for him unless he comes to see her people. The next thing that comes to his mind is to start telling you about his fictitious plans about coming to your place. He might even go as far as asking you to give him some heads up about what your kindred brideprice list looks like. This trick might convince any lady so beware!
9. When are you coming to see me
Men are known for this. Every now and then, they keep asking when are you coming to see me asif he is admitted in the hospital. Sometimes, he may deliberately make himself scarce, claiming to be busy at work and only have chance at home. This lie might increase your desire to see him, and you may be forced to give him, especially if you like him and miss him. Please take note!
10. You can add yours
I know most of the men will be frowning while reading this because their secrets has been exposed.
Ladies, have you fallen victim of any of these lies?
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