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Wednesday, 29 November 2017

7 Ways To Boost Your Spirituality

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Spirituality can grant you hope, stability, and acceptance. The relationship you have with a higher being is sacred. While many people deem themselves devoted to their God, there are some of us who are longing for a deeper connection. Whether we need specific guidance or wish for the power of faith, we want someone or something to believe in. Here are several ways anyone can achieve spiritual growth.
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1. PRAYING OR MEDITATING IN SOLITUDE
It’s important that you take 15-20 minutes a day to pray or meditate. By relieving your body of insignificant thoughts you allow your God to connect with you. You can begin any meditation session with a prayer and then you should sit still and relax your mind.
2. FOLLOWING THE EXAMPLE
Whatever your beliefs, you must follow the way of the word. Practicing your faith means that you adhere to good morals and values. Respecting others, performing good deeds, leading an honest life, and remaining humble are just a few ways you can follow your higher being’s example.
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The Kindness of Others | Flickr/RobK Street Photography
3. JOINING A RELIGIOUS COMMUNITY
If you’re looking for support or encouragement from those of the same faith, you should consider joining a community of believers. Most Christian churches embrace visitors. Because spreading the word is so important, churches see it as their duty to guide you in your journey.
4. BUILDING RELATIONSHIPS WITH OTHER BELIEVERS
Participating in study sessions or prayer groups will help build on your spiritual knowledge and present new perspectives. Spending time with friends and loved ones with the same beliefs will also keep you on the right spiritual track. If you ever spend time with people of a different faith, it’s wise to remember your own spirituality.
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5. ASKING FOR HELP
Praying generally means that you’re asking for help. When you or a loved one is facing emotional or physical hardships, you can rely on prayer for answers, cures, and hope for a better tomorrow. Trusting that your prayers will be answered is a crucial aspect in spirituality.
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6. LISTENING FOR GUIDANCE
Once you’ve successfully added daily prayer to your life, you must begin listening for answers. This can be very difficult for those just beginning their spiritual journeys. Because you won’t actually hear your God’s voice responding back, you need to look for signs. It takes a lot of patience and practice but in time you’ll see signs from God everywhere.
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7. GIVING UP MATERIAL ITEMS
When you attribute too much value to materialistic things such as jewelry or expensive electronics, you probably aren’t appreciating the world that surrounds you. Treasuring tangible items can lessen your spirituality since they’re meaningless and give money power. Donate clothes you never wear and gadgets you never use. Give to the less fortunate and see how quickly someone else will pay it forward.
Begin boosting your spirituality today by reflecting on your own beliefs and practices.

21 Behaviors That Will Make You Brilliant At Creativity & Relationships

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When you see things from multiple perspectives, you realize you can achieve almost anything you want in far less time than you imagined.
Yet, most people have fixed and limited views about themselves and what they can accomplish.
They have fixed and limited views about the resources available to them.
They have fixed and limited views about time, and how long things must take to accomplish.
In this article, I squash all of those limiting perspectives and provide concrete strategies you can use to achieve your goals. There are no fixed-limits.
Here’s how it works:
Core Principles

1. Set Absurdly Ambitious Goals

“When 10x is your measuring stick, you immediately see how you can bypass what everyone else is doing.” — Dan Sullivan
Goals are most likely to be accomplished when:
  • They are intrinsically motivating. As Napoleon Hill explained in Think and Grow Rich, “Desire is the starting point of all achievement, not a hope, not a wish, but a keen pulsating desire which transcends everything.”
  • They must be difficult, or else they won’t be motivating.
  • They must be time-bound, to create a sense of urgency. Shorter timelines are one way to go 10x, since they force you to shed artificial constraints and think more creatively. As billionaire Peter Thiel is known to ask: “How can you achieve your 10-year plan in the next six months?”
As with all things in life, you get what you want. If you prefer to make excuses and justifications for a lack of progress, then just admit you prefer your current station in life. Self-acceptance can be a beautiful thing.
However, once you desire progress more than convenience, obstacles no longer stop but propel you. As the Roman emperorMarcus Aurelius is famous for saying, “The impediment to action advances action. What stands in the way becomes the way.”

2. Reframe Subconscious Patterns and Get Bold Insights Via Auto-Suggestion

“What is impressed in the subconscious is expressed.” — Dr. Joseph Murphy in The Power of Your Subconscious Mind
While awake, your conscious and subconscious mind are often at odds with each other. For example, you’re trying to be positive, but your subconscious patterns simply won’t let you.
Yet, while transitioning from being awake to being asleep, your brain waves move from the active Beta state into Alpha and then Theta before eventually dropping into Delta as we sleep. It is during the Theta window that your mind is most receptive to reshaping your subconscious patterns. Hence, Thomas Edison is known for having said, “Never go to sleep without a request to your subconscious.”
As a result, just before you fall asleep, it is key to visualize and even vocally state what you are trying to accomplish. When you repetitiously state a desired goal, visualization is key because you want to have as emotional of an experience as possible. You need to feel what it would be like to have what you seek.
You can absolutely trust that by planting these subconscious seeds, thoughts will pop-up at you, often at random intervals. You need to record these thoughts throughout your day. The bigger the goal, the bolder will be the required action to attain it. The clearer your “why,” the more inspired will be your “how.”
If you’re serious, you’ll need to act immediately upon the impressions your subconscious is transmuting to your conscious mind. If you brush-off these insights, you’ll get less and less of them. You’ll demonstrate to yourself and the source of your inspiration that you don’t really want the changes you claim to desire.

3. Learn and Work in Counter-Intuitive Environments

1905 was Albert Einstein’s break-through year where he published four research articles, known as the Annus Mirabilispapers, which went on to substantially alter the foundation of modern physics and changed views on space, time, and matter.
Interesting, when Einstein published these papers, he was not working in an academic setting, but rather, at the Swiss Patent Office. His work in this counter-intuitive work environment allowed him to different reflective angles and questions than a typical physics lab.
As Elon Musk’s wife, Justine, has said:
“Choose one thing and become a master of it. Choose a second thing and become a master of that. When you become a master of two worlds (say, engineering and business), you can bring them together in a way that will a) introduce hot ideas to each other, so they can have idea sex and make idea babies that no one has seen before and b) create a competitive advantage because you can move between worlds, speak both languages, connect the tribes, mash the elements to spark fresh creative insight until you wake up with the epiphany that changes your life.”
When you work in a different context from the majority of people in your field, you can make distinct and unique connections. You can integrate and cross-pollinate different ideas. You can avoid dogmatic thinking and expectations. You can learn to integrate ideas from seemingly dissimilar fields.

4. Learn from Counter-Intuitive Resources

“What does following in the footsteps of everyone else get you? It gets you to exactly the same conclusions as everyone else.” — Ryan Holiday
As Holiday explains, if you read what everyone else is reading, you’ll think like everyone else thinks. If you think like everyone else thinks, you won’t be able to come up with anything unique.
Follow your curiosity. Chase down obscure leads. Find stuff that no one else has found. In this way, your work will be truly valuable to others.

5. Focus on the Process (not results) of Those Who are Succeeding Big

“Success leaves clues.” — Jim Rohn
Focusing exclusively on results is one of the primary reasons the current academic system is broken. Kids are being taught to train for the test, rather than seeking novel and unique ways of doing things. No two kids are wired the same, nor should their contribution, creativity, and talent be viewed from the same standard.
When you want to develop expertise at something, rather than focusing on the results of those at the top of your field, study and emulate their process.
What are they doing?
Once you get process-oriented, as opposed to results-oriented, you realize you too can achieve amazing results. The process, or your behavior, is completely within your control. Conversely, when you focus solely on other people’s results, you can quickly become overwhelmed and give up.

6. Ignore What Almost Everyone Else is Doing

In the book, Relentless: From Good to Great to Unstoppable, Tim Groverexplains that the world’s elite don’t compete with other people. Rather, they make others compete with them. They set the tone and make others react totheir environment.
Most people are competing with other people. They continuously check-in to see what others in their space (their “competition”) are doing. As a result, they mimic and copy what’s “working.”
Rather than worrying about what others are doing, live your values. Put first things first. Spend more time with your loved ones andaway from work. While working, follow your own curiosity, not what others are doing.

7. 80/20 Analysis of Highest Leverage Activities

“Today everyone is a generalist, a deliberate move on the part of most as a reaction to the economic times.” — Leonard Smith
When studying the process of those you seek to emulate, don’t try to do it all.Everyone has their own strategy. Even those at the top of your field have imperfect strategies.
Find the patterns. What are the key things you must master? Master those.
Then innovate beyond those patterns when you’re ready, so your process comes to exceed the process of those you admire. Eventually, your results will exceed theirs as well.

8. Over-Learn High Leverage Activities

Learning something new is all about memory and how you use it. At first, your prefrontal cortex — which stores your working (or short-term) memory — is really busy figuring out how the task is done.
But once you’re proficient, the prefrontal cortex gets a break. In fact, it’s freed up by as much as 90%. Once this happens, you can perform that skill automatically, leaving your conscious mind to focus on other things.
This level of performance is called “automaticity,” and reaching it depends on what psychologists call “over-learning” or “over-training.”
For example, if you want to quickly learn how to write viral articles, study several hundred headlines of viral articles. If you want to write a book, study just the table of contents of hundreds of books. These are your “lay-ups.”
Start with small sets of information, then expand from there. By over-learning a particular category of learning, you’ll be able to better understand how it relates to the whole. You’ll also quickly be able to apply what you learn. You’ll quickly see the patterns others miss. Time will slow down for you as your cognition expands.

9. Learn to Apply, Not to Procrastinate “The Work”

“The key secret to success is not excessive expertise, but the ability to use it.Knowledge is worthless unless it is applied.” — Max Lukominskyi
Learning is best done while you’re doing the activity. Public education has taught people they must first master theory then attempt to transfer that theory into the real world. In a similar way, people’s love for information via the internet has led them to use “learning” as a form of procrastination.
A better approach is “context-based learning,” where you learn while doing.The key principles of context-based learning include:
  • Learn a concept in it’s simplest form
  • Put your redimentary knowledge to practice in a real-world scenario
  • Get coaching and feedback (feedback often comes in the form of “failure”)
  • Apply the feedback through repetitious practice
  • Get coaching and feedback
  • Repeat until proficient (see #8 just above)
Interestingly, researchers examined the effects of role-playing on the self-conceptof shy adolescents. One group of adolescents got traditional discussion-based training while another did role-play based training. The group that did role-plays experienced a significant positive change in their self-concept, which has a significant impact on their behaviors.
In our digital world, simulation training — based on role-playing real world scenarios — is becoming increasing popular.
Additionally, research has found that getting consistent feedback is essential to effective learning. You can use this. By making your work public, you get immediate feedback.
Getting immediate feedback has been found to be a flow trigger. It heightens performance. Especially when the feedback is real-world, and there are real consequences for success and failure.

10. Focus on Quantity in the Beginning

“Plant a lot, harvest a few.” — Seth Godin
In the book Originals: How Non-Conformists Move the World, Adam Grant explains that “originals” (i.e., people who create innovative work) are not reliable. In other words, not everything they produce is extraordinary.
For example, among the 50 greatest pieces of music ever created, six belong to Mozart, five are Beethoven’s, and three Bach’s. But in order to create those, Mozart wrote over 600 songs, Beethoven 650, and Bach over 1,000.
Similarly, Picasso created thousands of pieces of art, and few are considered to be his “great works.” Edison had 1,900 patents, and only a handful we would recognize. Albert Einstein published 248 scientific articles, only a few of which are what got him on the map for his theory of relativity.
Quantity is the most likely path to quality. The more you produce, the more ideas you will have — some of which will be innovative and original. And you never know which ones will click. You just keep creating.

11. Track Only a Few Things (ignore everything else)

“If you have more than three priorities, then you don’t have any.” — Jim Collins in Good to Great: Why Some Companies Make the Leap…And Others Don’t
If you want to improve at something, you need to quantify it. If you don’t quantify it, you don’t really know what’s happening. As Thomas Monson explains, “When performance is measured, performance improves. When performance is measured and reported, the rate of improvement accelerates.”
I can personally attest to this principle. When I started measuring a few metrics, such as each set in the gym, my income, and how much time I spend in “flow” while working, I dramatically improved in these areas. The reason is simple: tracking helped me become aware and objective about my weaknesses. Thus, I knew exactly where I should focus and could do it systematically.

12. Heighten Expectation for What You Can Accomplish

“I think the ability of the average man could be doubled if it were demanded, if the situation demanded.” — William Durant
I started working out with my current workout partner about two months ago. He’s nearly 20 years older than me, and can lift substantially more weight than me.

Quote's for the day

Love is the first chapter in the book of virtue.


The greatest force on earth is not the compulsion of law, But the compassion of LOVE.


Love is not a feeling but a choice. It's not what you feel but more what you do.

Explain your anger, don't express it, and you will immediately open the door to solutions instead of arguments

It is better to keep your mouth closed and let people think you are a fool than to open it and remove all doubt.

Once we accept our limits, we go beyond them.

Love is not all about getting everything you want, sometimes it involves letting go of something you love.


Everybody needs just a little love, lots of hope and unshakable faith.

Confidence is something you create within yourself by believing in who you are.

Sometimes you have to experience the bad, so that you can learn to appreciate the good things that enter your life.


These ethnic groups in Nigeria have the most ridiculous bride prices

Weddings may seem like fun but these prices are not.

AN example of bride price required to consummate marriage in Nigeria.  (Omojuwa)

All over Nigeria, bride price is paid by grooms in return for the family's consent and blessings for the bride to start a new family but some of these bride prices are ridiculously high.

According to practice, bride price takes different form based on traditions and custom of the people. Sometime, it is an amount of money, property or other form of payment expected to be made by prospective groom's family. In Nigeria, the payment of bride price is essential for the validation of any marriage regardless of the tribe.
Since there is no uniformity in the practice, here are some tribes in the Nigeria with a surprising tribe tradition.

1. Mbaise, Imo State

The ethnic group has one of the most expensive marriage rituals in Africa.
The ethnic group has one of the most expensive marriage rituals in Africa.  (vickysecret blog)
Marrying the daughter of an Mbaise family can be very expensive. If the daughter is educated then the bride price could go even higher. According to unwritten tradition of the people, a bride/woman is an asset to the man.
As such, the Mbaise people demand a bride price sometimes reaching up to N100,000 accompanied by a marriage list of things to buy that can total up to N800,000.

2. Bororo, Adamawa State

This is a Fulani group with large settlement in Adamawa state.
This is a Fulani group with large settlement in Adamawa state.  (Hometown.ng)
The Bororo people are primarily a nomadic ethnic group. Although not as financially draining as other ethnic groups, it still requires a large number of resources.
To marry a Bororo girl, you will be asked to bring live cattle which is usually between 10 to 50 live cattle. Also, the wealth of the suitor is also noted to be considered in fixing the desired bride price.

3. Ikwerre, Rivers State

Wedding is a funfair to the people of Ikwerre in Rivers state Nigeria
Wedding is a funfair to the people of Ikwerre in Rivers state Nigeria  (Aisle Perfect)
The Ikwerre people have extremely expensive bride prices and marriage lists produced by the bride's family. The bride price and marriage list can cost the suitor up to the sum of N1 million to get his bride.
To the Ikwerre people, their daughters have been raised with dedication and any man that marries them should pay handsomely for them.

4. Kalabari, Rivers State

The Groom is expected to pay to have the Bride's mouth.
The Groom is expected to pay to have the Bride's mouth.  (Nairaland Forum)
The Kalabari people are also known to have some of the most outrageous bride price and marriage lists in Nigeria.  For a typical wedding ceremony, the groom is subjected to many payments, one which include “buying the bride's mouth”.
A Kalabari wedding can reach the sum of N1 million and beyond.

5. Ibibio, Akwa-Ibom State

To the Ibibio people, the wedding ceremony won't end at the reception as there is a street procession that complete the rites.
To the Ibibio people, the wedding ceremony won't end at the reception as there is a street procession that complete the rites.  (Nairaland Forum)
As a result of the Ibibio people being mostly agriculturalists, they believe that their daughters are raised to be strong and self-sustaining. Hence they are seen to have been groomed to support a man and help him raise a family.
A bride price combines with the list of items demanded can result in the total of at least N700,000.

6. Efik, Cross Rivers State

The Efik people have one of the robust wedding rituals in Nigeria.
The Efik people have one of the robust wedding rituals in Nigeria.  (traditionsrites)

Efik people are known to have a rich cultural background and their marriage ceremonies are a clear indication of this. The marriage list is generated based on the financial ability of the suitor.
Among this tribe, the bride price is estimated in Euro. This practice is attributed to the strong influence of colonial activities on the people.

6 Facts About Sneezing You Never Knew Were True

Sneezing and it’s cause has been one fascinating subject for a long time. You can feel your nose tickling as you hold your breath before letting out a stream of bacteria containing air.
Sneezing a lot of the time is a reflex action that helps the nose to get rid of irritants such as pollen and dust. It is majorly the body’s way of getting rid of unwanted substances that can be harmful to the lungs.
However, there’s a whole lot more about this simple reflex action that a lot of us don’t know about. Here are 6 Facts about sneezing you never knew were true.
You Can’t Keep Your Eyes Open When You Sneeze
No matter how strong or forceful a sneeze is, you can’t keep your eyes open while you let out the flow.
It’s basically a reflex to keep your eyes closed when you sneeze because the nerves in your nose are connected to the nerves in your eyes and when you sneeze, the stimulation usually causes you to blink.
Sex Can Make You Sneeze Too
We bet this one surprises you too but some people actually sneeze a lot after having sex. Scientists are not really sure why this happens but most believe that there is a link between sneezing after sex and the parasympathetic nervous system.
This system is responsible for regulating digestion, the tissues and fluids connected with arousal and the heart rate.
The Sun Can Trigger A Sneeze
Some people have a condition known as autosomal dominant compulsive helio-ophthalmic outbursts represented by the acronym “ACHOO” and is characterised by sneezing when you stare at the sun.
The condition is not that rare and it may also trigger sneezing in certain people when they stare at very bright lights.
Researchers estimate that this condition affects between 10 to 30 percent of the world’s population and as so far been known not to cause any harm to sufferers.
Some scientists believe that ACHOO occurs as a result of a left over trait during evolution while others believe it is an anomaly in the parasympathetic nervous system.
A study conducted in Switzerland in 2010 found that the brains of people with this condition is easily excited as opposed to that of other people and this may also be linked to the characteristic body quirks of sufferers.
Sneezing Doesn’t Make Your Heart Skip A Beat
Sneezing does not make your heart beat slow down or put a stop to it. The first thing you do when you feel a tickle in your nose is to breath deeply and attempt to hold it in.
The breath you took in helps to tighten the muscles of your chest and increases the pressure in your lungs. These help to reduce blood flow to your heart for a moment thereby lowering your blood pressure and increasing your heart rate.
The moment you let out your sneeze, your blood pressure increases and goes back to normal while your heart rate goes down. The sudden drop In your heart rate makes you feel like your heart stopped beating for a second but it only slowed down for most people.
The Velocity of A Sneeze Can Be Up To 100 Meters per Second
A research conducted in Harvard University found that the velocity of a sneeze can travel as fast as 100 meters per second which seems to be a bit over exaggerated. A research team in Singapore found that sneezes tend to travel at a speed of 10 miles per hour.
More so, body frames and sizes seem to have an effect on how fast a sneeze can travel as people with bigger body frames will most likely produce a more forceful sneeze than slimmer people.
You Can’t Sneeze While You Sleep
There’s a reason why you can’t sneeze while you sleep and that’s because when you lie down, the mucous membranes in your nose tend to swell.
This makes you more sensitive to the dust particles moving in and out of your nostrils. When you however Dall into deep sleep, all of the muscles in your body except the ones that control your eyes fall into a paralysed sleeping state.
The muscles that expand and contract your nostrils to allow a sneeze also fall asleep and you can’t let out a sneeze.
Even when you’re not sleeping deeply, the neurons responsible for causing a sneeze are still suppressed. As such, it is possible to sneeze during shallow sleep but it’s very much unlikely.

10 Things We Forget To Thank Our Boyfriends For

We take the little things for granted.

A lot of times I find myself taking some of the most important things in my life for granted. One of those things being my significant other. When we have something so amazing for such a long time, it can be easy to just get used to the idea that you have someone special. We shouldn't forget to thank them for the things they do for us. I came up with a list of simple things every boyfriend does, but we almost always forget to thank them for.

1. Being my personal photographer

Thank you for always taking a million pictures of me when I ask. We know you hate it, but we are sure glad you do it.

2. Buying me food

This seems obvious, but it's easy to forget to thank you. Even if it's a small snack or a fancy dinner, thank you.

3. Listening

Thank you for listening to my long rants that you could care less about.

4. Support

Thank you for keeping me up when I am down. Whether I act like it or not, you truly keep me together.

5. Forgiveness

Thank you for the times when you forgive me when I don't deserve it.

6. Time

Thank you for giving me time that you will never get back.

7. Borrowing your clothes

This sounds cliche, but it is true. Thank you for always letting me borrow a shirt or sweats even when you know you may never get them back.

8. Waiting for me

Thank you for always waiting for me when I do my hair, makeup, or any other thing that may slow me down.

9. Driving

Thank you for always being the one who drives me around so I don't have to. If it weren't for me, you'd have a lot more gas in your tank.

10. Giving me very sound advice

Thank you for the advice that no one else has the courage to give me. I may not always want to hear it, but I am thankful for it.
Being appreciated is important. Boyfriends do so much for it and we don't even know it sometimes. It's easy to let people in our lives go unappreciated. Take two seconds out of your day to say thank you to the one who truly keeps you going.

13 Signs You Might Be A Love Addict

Do you often fall for people who are emotionally unavailable?
13 Signs You Might Be A Love Addict
‘Love addiction is a condition where individuals often fall in love or become deeply attached to someone who fails to return their love and affection,’ love addiction expert and couples therapist, Helen Mia Harris, explains.
‘More often than not, the love addict will be passionately attracted to someone who is emotionally unavailable, at times withdrawn and unresponsive, or someone who will disregard/neglect the relationship.’
So how do you know if you, or the person you’re dating is a love addict? Helen shares the 13 signs.

1 Inability to let go

Finding it almost impossible to let go of an unhealthy relationship even if your love is not returned and you know you should leave.

2 Fear of your partner leaving

Yearning and pining for the beloved/partner to return your text messages, emails, phone calls ‘immediately’ for fear of them leaving and abandonment.

3 Worrying they don’t feel the same

Feeling anxious and panicky, fearing they don’t feel the same way as you and that you won’t survive without them.

How do you use the laws of attraction to attract a specific person?

While many people start learning about the Law of Attraction with the hopes of finding a soulmate, others are hoping to find love in a particular place. Perhaps there’s someone you’ve always wanted to be with and yet have never approached, or maybe you remember a past partner and yearn to be reunited.
Regardless, you’re probably wondering whether it’s even possible to attract a specific person by using the Law of Attraction. The truth is that you can do it, just as you can manifest anything else you desire. Let’s take a closer look at how to attract a specific person, and consider some of the best techniques you can use.
How To Attract A Specific Person
Even when your hope is to manifest a specific person as a partner, working with the Law of Attraction will still involve primarily focusing on yourself. That can be hard to accept at first—after all, if there’s someone you’re deeply attracted to or are even in love with, it’s likely that this person is almost all you can think about some of the time!
You might have thought that you could use the Law of Attraction to get this other person to love you. However, using the Law of Attraction is all about your emotions, your thoughts, and your unique vibration.
Now, what are some concrete ways to focus on yourself in a way that facilitates the Law of Attraction bringing a specific person to your door?
Here are seven approaches worth trying.
1. Be Confident About Yourself
Self-confidence is powerfully alluring, and the person you desire is more likely to see you in a positive light if you can perceive your own value more clearly. Try to connect with all the reasons that you have a lot to offer in a relationship—for example, make a list, draw out a mind map, or keep a journal in which you write one positive thing about yourself per day.
2. Build Positive Beliefs About Love
If you spend all your time thinking you can’t or won’t get a partner, you’re unlikely to attract the one you love. In addition, try to avoid self-pitying thoughts like “Why don’t people appreciate me?”—the truth is that plenty of others do and will appreciate you, but you need to be open to seeing this.
When you let in the love and admiration, you create a space to experience the love of the person you want to be with.
3. Let Go Of Fear
One of the most frightening parts of love is allow yourself to experience it. After all, it comes with the possibility of being hurt in the long term. When this fear is at the forefront of your mind, you can unconsciously erect barriers and defences that keep other people away. Work to make peace with the risks involved in love, and you’ll be fully open to receiving the right partner.
4. Have A Good Time
Studies consistently show that laughing, smiling and being downright fun are all incredibly attractive. You’re noticeable and appealing to other people when you’re enjoying yourself, so try to really throw yourself into all your hobbies, interests and passions.
Make it your mission to enjoy every day of your life, and you’ll be more likely to attract your chosen person at a faster rate.
5. See The Other Person Positively
If you’re looking to attract someone with whom you have a complicated history, your feelings might be somewhat confused. However, if you spend a lot of time thinking about the person’s negative traits (or traits you worry they might have), you’ll keep them at a distance.
Try to zero in on the best things about the person, and to keep focusing on them. You may be surprised by how quickly this change in attitude can spark changes in the other person’s behaviour.
6. Enjoy What You Have
A huge part of successfully using the Law of Attraction involves learning how to better live in the moment, really savouring every day and every good experience. This is what will give you that all-important higher vibration—the vibration that attracts more good things into your life, including the partner you desire.
Try to let go of obsessing over what you don’t have, and you’ll soon see things start to fall into place.
7. Prepare To Let Go
As with any goal, you’ll need to find a way to let go of being with the other person if you’re ever going to manifest the relationship you want. It’s only when you’re able to accept being happy and at peacewithout this other person that you will be able to attract them.
This is challenging, but with time and effort you can begin to see how life could be okay (and even good) without this person as your partner. Then—and only then—will you be ready to receive their love.

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