There are alot of things that help sustain relationships. Love is not enough, you have to understand the general being of the person you are with and also some specific things about him. So knowing this, you can be a different kind of girl, and most importantly be a matured one because every man hate them. Lets get started:
1. SPYING.
Oh yes! I bet you didnt know. Its okay to protect your man but stop spying on him, looking for whos texting him and who hes texting, who just called and who he calls. Checking his watsapp messages and facebook messenger.
Realize this fact: he chose you, not them. If he wanted to be with other girls, he would, and not you.
Spying gives you off as an insecure woman and that will drive your man into the arms of another woman.
No man wants to feel caged. If you think hes cheating, talk with him, or ask him questions. If you cant deal with it or don't like his answers, then peacefully end the relationship.
Dont spy
2. JEALOUSY
Oh yeah, sweetheart ! Its okay to be territorial you know, protecting whats yours, and protecting your space, but jealousy is a NO!
Being jealous would be hurting yourself all the time because youll always feel uncomfortable when he is talking to a girl. Even when theres nothing going on, youll think something is. You will become paranoia.
When jealous youll see yourself having irrational thoughts and even acting on them. Men avoid jealous women but once you show you aint jealous, it sends the message that you are super-confident..
A jealous woman is a dangerous one. As she can act crazy out of jealousy.
We hear and see in the news what women do to their men because of jealousy.
There is a line between jealousy and been territorial. Know it.
3. Never offering to pay
It’s just rude not to make the obligatory reaching-for-your-wallet movement. And once you’ve been dating for a while, actually make a point of paying for drinks, dessert, or movie tickets now and then.
Make sure he feels like your boyfriend, not an ATM.
Give him a threat. It mustn't be on valentines say, birthday or whatever. Sometimes just spoil him.
3. Constantly complaining about people you don’t like
Men don’t engage in this kind of mean-girl drama, and hearing you do it just irritates them. It also makes them wonder if you’re complaining about him to your other friends – so save the snark for your girlfriends.
Your boyfriend doesn’t want to see those annoying post about that gal you hate everytime.
4. Not saying what she means
Take this situation, for example: “No, I don’t mind if you go out with your friends instead of taking me to a movie tonight,” a woman says, tapping her foot and looking away with her arms folded. Although her mouth is saying quite literally, “No, I don’t mind,” her body is saying she does mind. Women expect the men in their lives to read their nonverbal cues. Some men fail to read the nonverbal cues of the women in their lives. When this happens, an argument is almost always the result, because the woman feels that she communicated her feelings to the man and he ignored her.
These little common things is why your man will leave you for a less attractive person and be happy with them.
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