So.. Today I’m ‘mad’ and I will be talking of a very sensitive issue. What’s up with some of these feminists in Africa? Are you ‘mad’ ni? I’ve come to conclude that all these feminists BS won’t work in Africa not because it’s a man’s world but because of how clueless the people or women fighting for it are.
READ MY RANT BELOW ;
I was scrolling through Twitter this morning and I came across a tweet that said “just because a woman doesn’t know how to cook doesn’t mean she isn’t a good wife”.
I saw some point in that and I was like she could learn with time or the husband could assist too but the one that weak me is that the ladies then came on the thread and said “why should the lady be the one to cook? Cooking is what everyone should do, a woman shouldn’t be bothered if she doesn’t know how to cook, you are not a slave to any one. Stay Woke”
Wait.. So now that it has come to cooking, it is now what everyone should do.. But when it comes to providing for the family, it is the work of the man, when it comes to paying bride price, it is the duty of the man, when it comes to paying for children fees, it is the duty of the man.
We are not saying a woman should be the only one to cook but if a woman cannot cook and she shouldn’t be bothered about it but she is still a good wife then we are equally saying “A man that cannot provide for his family and doesn’t bother about it, is still a responsible man”, who are you deceiving?
When we the men accept our roles, we pay bride price, we provide for the family, we sacrifice our fun time to keep our wives and children happy then it comes to the ladies and cooking for your husband when he comes back from work or at least learning how to cook for him becomes a sin, it becomes “enslavement of women”, you should kuku say we should breast feed the baby and carry the pregnancy for you too.
If we want to make everything general then let us start from the bride price, I pay bride price to your parents and you pay groom price to my parents, I bring my salary and we divide into 2 and you bring yours and we divide it into 2.
Since we want to be unfortunate and speak like mad people.
Since we want to be unfortunate and speak like mad people.
(I’m not saying that we shouldn’t assist each other but neglecting your role in the family and you come to say you are a feminist near me.. I will… Let me not talk)
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