They are generally called Yoruba demons, maybe because a large number of them are from the Yoruba part of Nigeria. These men appear looking like freshly baked bread straight from the oven. Their lips; pink and you just want to swallow them...lol.
Many ladies out there have falling victims of men who can be said to have 'come to kill, take and to destroy', they are simply out to steal your joy and leave you empty.
Be your own watchdog and gatekeeper and look out for the following traits in any man who shows interest in you:
1. Mr. Time Will Tell: These set of men clam time will tell how soon they will know the length at which they intend to take their relationship with you. They always make sure you know their friends just so you can believe they are at their final stop with you until they wake up one day and change their minds.
2. Mr. Come to my house for the first date: It takes a lady who has never heard this popular line before to fall for such. A man who has a long-run plan will be reluctant to ruin his first amazing date with you by inviting you over. Of course, he will try to impress you with a nice dinner or outing with a perfect environment.
3. Mr. I am self-employed with no proof: My sister, run for your life. He is either a Yahoo Boy or he is not sure what he wants for himself. At this age and time, a man should be sure of what he wants and how to achieve his set goals for his life.
4. Mr. Borrow me money, I will pay back: Except you are committed to a guy and you are certain of where your relationship with him is going, NEVER borrow a man your money. Except of course, your name is "Charity" and you are only being yourself.
5. Mr. Hang Around: When you have a guy whom you have gone on dates with, told him that things weren't working out, and he hangs around indefinitely as the “friend” only to confess feelings later, giving him the chance may not be worth it.
You have to remember what kept you from being with him the first chance you gave him.
All being said, as a lady, you need to guard your heart jealously to avoid stories that tough. I understand heartbreaks can be very painful. It is bound to happen in one's lifetime but then, you can reduce how often your heart is broken buy guarding it with all you've got.
And as for you my guy reading this post....yes you, I will be back for the ladies also, men are not the only problem. A lot of ladies out there are the reason some men have decided to remain single till stupor.
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