Guys, Avoid These 5 Things If You Want To Be Successful

Destiny is something we all have and it is greatly shaped by what we do on daily basis. Even God said ‘ I will bless the works of your hand ‘ but many people are using their hands to destroy their own destiny. Guys, if you want to build a life you will look back on and be proud of, avoid doing these 5 things.

1.    Having many girlfriends

So many men think having and dating many women makes you smart but this does not add anything to your life, instead it takes away your precious time, money, energy and many things that should be channeled towards your future. Bill Gates, one of the richest men in the world was once asked of some of his secrets to success and he said ‘ focus on one woman and she will help you achieve all you want in life’. Having many girlfriends does not make you a real man but a cheat, play boy and someone who is not serious with life. Take note, a responsible man will not have time for all this.

2.    Using and dumping ladies

Why will sleep with her when you know you will not marry her? Why use her when you know you don’t have future plans for her? Remember the law of karma for what you do today will always come back to haunt you. Do you know those girls you are causing to shed tears might never forgive you? As a man, when you begin to engage in this act thinking you are smart, you are already gambling with you future and destiny. Always control your sexual urge and learn to transmute it towards your respective careers

3.    Inappropriate dressing

Please dress the way you want to be addressed. You don’t need to wear tattered trousers to show you are fashionable. It is only little and ambition-less boys who go about doing this to show swag. A responsible man will not have time for this. Remember, if you are doing this to impress a girl, just know that you are going to impress the wrong girl.

4.    Not having self control

Discipline and self control is a very vital habit you need if you want to be great and successful in life. God will not just give you 1 million Naira if you have not shown him how to use ten thousand Naira. You have to learn how to control yourself towards the things of this world. When you don’t have self control you will always fall into the trap of chasing women, drinking alcohol and engaging in all vices that will never benefit you and the aftermath of all these can be you contacting STDS, wasting your future etc.

5.    Disrespecting women

Do not maltreat and misuse the love of any woman who truly loves you. Don’t use the opportunity of her trusting you to hurt her. A real man will not do this. so many people have this notion that women are everywhere and if you dump one, another is always there but the truth is you might never find someone to truly love you again like the one you are dumping. Do not beat or maltreat any woman whether your wife or girlfriend.