Relationships: Self-Appraisal

Making resolutions is a situation whereby a person resolves to change an undesired trait or behaviour to accomplish a personal goal or otherwise improve their life.

Before you start setting goals for next year, the first assignment is to do a "Self Appraisal''.  (Ignition Wealth.)

As the year is running to an end, many people will begin to make new year resolutions. Making resolutions has become a yearly tradition. They write it down and read and it over and over again. Making resolutions is a situation whereby a person resolves to change an undesired trait or behaviour to accomplish a personal goal or otherwise improve their life.

One thing is very important in life- your ability to decide on a particular task whether it is bad or right. Taking a step requires a good deliberation. When you are able to think of the outcome and take possible steps and actions towards its actualization.

Before you start setting goals for next year, the first assignment is to do a "Self Appraisal" .

Think and reflect on the actions and decisions you have taken this year. What are your mistakes? How do you intend to tackle them and make necessary corrections?

When you are able to identify all, that is when you are ready for the new year.

To learn from your mistakes, you have to admit that you have made it. But as soon as you start blaming others, then you are not yet ready. Once you admit, you will be able to learn and make progress in your journey.

Complaining about life, job, family or your career will not yield any result but complicate matters .

You need to reposition your mind and think positively. Feed your mind with positivity. You can smile through the miles.

To make progress ahead, here are the few things you need to do with your life.

Learn to forgive yourself

Truly you might have come across different challenges, ups and downs in all spheres of life but that is never the end. Giving up is never the right option. Raise your head up and believe you can do it. You have to forgive yourself and learn from your mistakes .

The difference between here and there is time; you can get there. Open your mind to possibilities and believe nothing is difficult for you to achieve. To forgive yourself, you must identify your biggest regret and tackle it, become clear on your morals and values as they are right now, and realize the past is past. You need to move on.

When you do this; you will have peace of mind so you can start your journey afresh without guilt or regret.

Think Big, Set Goals

Goal setting is a vital key for success. If you don't set goals, you can't score a goal. Goal setting is the process of identifying something that you want to accomplish and establishing measurable goals and timeframes .

It is not enough to set goals but more important to set achievable goals, you must also learn to take actions to make it a reality. Your goals must be SMART, Specific, Measurable, Attainable , Realistic and Time bound .

In conclusion, as you approach the new year, it is your duty to make choices and make things better for your life.

You have the power to make things work only if you are ready to take responsibilities and never think 'it will all be rosy'.

But you have to rise up and build your capacity , it means you are stepping out of your comfort zone and you are stepping up to influence. You can smile through the miles.