After tying the knot (marriage), couples begin to walk in the mentality of ‘what is mine is yours and what is yours is mine’. Though, for most women there are things that they hide from their men and they absolutely understand why they do it.
However, most times women keep secrets not because they want to harm their men but as a way of protecting and preventing unnecessary disagreements.
❤. Sex life
Most women are unsatisfied with their sex life but they will not disclose it to their men.The number of women that enjoy sex and actually reach orgasm is few and in order not to bruise their men’s ego, they just keep it to themselves. Sometimes, women feel embarrassed admitting it to their men that their desire was not met. At times, the hygienic status and approach of their men when it is about to go down is a turn off, but they are quiet about it. They only reveal it and tell you how they would like subsequent sexual session to be, when the moment warrants it. So please, dear men, be sensitive to the needs of your women.
❤. Money and other accounts
Women hardly disclose a certain amount out of the money they have to their men, so that they can have something to fall back on in case an urgent need arises and they need to tackle it without the input of their men. Aside that, there is this fear that once their men know about a hidden stash somewhere, they would start demanding for it, with a promise to payback, which they never do. There are women that operate bank accounts different from the one their husbands are aware of. Often times, it is set aside for unforeseen circumstances but that does not mean she will not spend her man’s money.
❤. Still has feelings for her ex
Most women act all lovey with their men but none will disclose that they still have feelings for their ex. There are certain things that would bring the remembrance of their ex and they silently wish they are still with them. Reason for this is best known to them and somehow it comes from a place of comparison that their ex would have done some things differently from how their present man is doing it.
❤. Health issues
There are health challenges women keep from their men. They decide to handle it on their own till the time is right to disclose it to their men. For some, it is a minor health challenge while for others it is something major but they will hide worrisome concerns from their men to protect them or decrease stress. Women, rather than keep it as a secret, let your men know so that you can receive all the pampering and care that you deserve.
❤. How her in laws treat her
Hardly will you find a woman telling her man how she is being treated by her in laws.She would rather keep it to herself and just only reveal it within her girls circle.For the sake of peace and her well being, she would find a way to manage it and still keep being a good wife. When a woman expresses her feelings about how her mother in law or sister in law treated her,she is being considered to be insensitively provocative and may force the man to choose between her and his family. Though some have found a way to subtly express themselves, others have decided to be mute about it in order not to be looked as the one who came to destroy the family bond.
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