Love is never the foundation of marriage and love doesn't make marriage work. Don't marry someone because you love the person. You need more than love to live with one person all the days of your life. Successful marriages are built and erected based on these three factors:
#1. Knowledge: You need plenty of knowledge to able to live with only one person which you call your husband or wife. Knowledge will help you to know how a man or woman is wired. These two beings are completely and distinctly different from each other. Knowledge will expose you to understand the basic need of a man which is respect and that of the woman which is affection. Make sure you read books on marriage attend seminars that will help you make your marriage work.
#2. Understanding: This is where you truly understand how to respect your man as a woman and how to show affection to your woman as a man. Devise creative ways to do that. Understand who is a Man truly and also who a woman truly is. Knowledge will gave you that understanding.
#3. Wisdom: This is the proper application of the knowledge furnished through understanding. You need plenty of wisdom in dealing with your wife or husband. Go for marriage mentors that will teach you the rudiments of marriage wisdom.
Marriage is a house; wisdom laid the foundation, understanding establishes the house; knowledge helps to bring good tidings into the marriage. Don't forget to share and comment.
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